Wednesday, March 16, 2011

What Now? Think. Think. Think.

We all make decisions in life. Some big, some small. Some end up being right while some end up being wrong. We all have choices that we have to make. We all have challenges we have to face. The point is that at the end of the day, we shouldn't end up losing face. No matter how hard a situation gets in order for us to make our minds and no matter how bad the consequences get in the end, we should all remain unfazed. I have personally dealt with wrong decisions in the past and have learned from them ever since. I guess there are just some decisions that aren't meant to be but I don't regret making them instead I see to it that I do not make the same decisions in life again and if I do encounter the same situations the next time, I will do what I didn't do the first time. Sure, making decisions is hard. Nobody ever said it was easy but our life is filled with decisions. We all have choices and we can't let other people do them for us. We all have to do our own decisions - no matter how big or small for if not then how will we be able to fare in the world outside our own? Sometimes we make decisions that recquire the opinions of other people but that doesn't mean that you would base everything on what they said. It's your life and you better know what to do with it. Other people only exist to either continue to cloud your judgment or enlighten you to the right path. Choosing is the hardest task we all must take. If our choices fail us that doesn't mean that we have failed ourselves. It only means that we should choose wisely next time. There is nothing right or wrong. It only ends up being right or wrong especially when we consider everything else involved and most of all if we consider what other people will think or say about it. If there is one thing I've learned it's to never think too much about others when it's life you're deciding about. Sure, you'll end up pleasing them but at the expense of your personal happiness. Why be bound to what others will say or think when it's your life and you are entitled to do whatever you want with it? 

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